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Manifesting A Relationship (Bring In A Mate)
A relationship manifest will probably be the most exciting and complex endeavor you will ever undertake. Unlike bringing in a new car, house, or career, a relationship connects with every aspect of your life. A substantial relationship moves far beyond companionship. It may involve creating children or blending families.
Why a manifest? Manifesting allows the universe to
provide a mate. If you've read "The Secret" or "Law Of
Attraction" you've come to understand that the process of looking around
for a partner, picking and choosing possible prospects, shows the
universe you are more interested in doing research than actually living
your dream. It says you are uncertain about what you deserve and are
willing to see what might fit for now.
Background On Manifesting
If you have not already done so, please review the reference material on Manifesting in general. It covers the overall practice, contains guidelines on content, and even mentions common pitfalls.
Specifics About Relationship Manifests
The guidelines here reflect manifesting a life partner. If it is your choice to use the manifest session to bring in a summer romance, short term connection, or long term friendship, that is always an option. Simply adjust your writings accordingly and make sure the group understands your intentions.
For a life partner, include everything that is important to you. You may find yourself bombarded by influences from others indicating what they believe you should want (we call this "shoulding" on people). This is not about them. This is about you. Stay open to the suggestions, just in case one resonates for you. Don't get hung up on other people's desires (and sometimes, fears).
Here's an extremely "short list" as a sample starting point. And again, only if it matters to you:
Everything you include is significant. In addition, everything you exclude is also significant. Anything you choose not to state will be viewed by the universe as a conscious declaration of "this is not important to me".
Including the Chakras
Within the general reference material on Manifesting you will find a notation regarding an advanced approach. It mentions invoking the power of all 7 chakras to ensure your manifests are more complete. In relationship manifests, this can be even more powerful. In addition to everything else, you might consider how the two of you will relate at each chakra level:
Once again, this is not a requirement. Only include these if they are important to you.
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